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Piece of unsolicited advice for you both...
Don't let it drag on, whatever the outcome. I let this kind of bullshit drag on for three years once. It did nothing but slowly erode my own self worth, and build resentment so that a relationship that could have been full tilt awesome ended angry, bitter and tired. Don't be afraid that being straight forward will ruin the awesome, because if it is awesome than it won't be ruined. If its not a relationship made of awesome, than its not worth wasting the time and emotional energy on what "could" be. I am telling you, if a girl is indecisive about who to chose, the message to take is that she is not decisive enough about you. It may drag on forever waiting for her to make a decision, so make a decision for yourself.
Don't let it drag on, whatever the outcome. I let this kind of bullshit drag on for three years once. It did nothing but slowly erode my own self worth, and build resentment so that a relationship that could have been full tilt awesome ended angry, bitter and tired. Don't be afraid that being straight forward will ruin the awesome, because if it is awesome than it won't be ruined. If its not a relationship made of awesome, than its not worth wasting the time and emotional energy on what "could" be. I am telling you, if a girl is indecisive about who to chose, the message to take is that she is not decisive enough about you. It may drag on forever waiting for her to make a decision, so make a decision for yourself.
-}}}Dulcius ex Asperis >
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Re: Girls Suck ...
Leif, thanks for the advice. I am doing just that. There are plenty of fish in the sea, more train wrecks to see, more bullshit to deal with. 
I think I would make a great pope.
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Re: Girls Suck ...
So its been a while, a long while. The boards at the top say the last time I logged in was in July. I need to get better about that.
I have no where else to put this, but whatever, my game, my rules, am I right?
So this thread is kind of humorous, a lot can change in half a year. That girl, she got married to a british boyfriend. After the day above, I never saw her again, not until last Saturday. She showed up with her husband to this beer tasting thing at Union Station. I felt awkward, never felt that way before.
He doesnt make her happy, but people make bad life choices. I should know.
Half a life ago I started here. I miss so many people, I am sorry that I did not keep in touch.
I have no where else to put this, but whatever, my game, my rules, am I right?
So this thread is kind of humorous, a lot can change in half a year. That girl, she got married to a british boyfriend. After the day above, I never saw her again, not until last Saturday. She showed up with her husband to this beer tasting thing at Union Station. I felt awkward, never felt that way before.
He doesnt make her happy, but people make bad life choices. I should know.
Half a life ago I started here. I miss so many people, I am sorry that I did not keep in touch.
Battle not with monsters, lest ye become a monster, and if you gaze into the abyss, the abyss gazes also into you.
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Re: Girls Suck ...
Mav,
Good to see you. You live in dc?
Life often has a cruel fickle finger of fate.
Nymph
Good to see you. You live in dc?
Life often has a cruel fickle finger of fate.
Nymph
Nymphsong
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I live in Chicago. Im assuming there is an Union Station in DC?
And it more was just odd. She was part of our friend circle, then just dropped off the map. Win some, lose some.
And it more was just odd. She was part of our friend circle, then just dropped off the map. Win some, lose some.
Battle not with monsters, lest ye become a monster, and if you gaze into the abyss, the abyss gazes also into you.
http://www.Flapship.com
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Yes, there is here in dc.
You should stick around the boards. Your counsel is greatly missed.
Nymph
You should stick around the boards. Your counsel is greatly missed.
Nymph
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