having an issue.

[bandit]

Okay, i am having this issue. it involves a woman, and how she used me cause she had no where to go. we started dating. have fun and what not. my land lord came over and started threatening me with physical violence. it scare her so bad, she gave me an ultimatum, come with me or loose me.

i really had nothing holding me there. so i went with her.

then she changed. her family which i just met said that she uses guys to get what she wants. she kept pushing me further and further away. btw im technically homeless and no where to go. it got so bad i sent my son to my sisters house about 2hrs a way.

she tells me tonight that she is leaving to go back to an ex of hers which is a sucker if he takes her back. and that i need to find my own way back to where ever the hell i want to go.

so im contemplating this, making a web page, and go to all her social sites that she goes to and put a warning out for her. and posting that link on said sites just to warn people about her.

would that be a bad thing for me to do, or should i just bite my tongue and let it go?

[Wretch]

Walk away, or preferably, run!

You can't prevent the damage this woman will eventually do, but you can leave this whole mess behind and move forward.

Like the old line states, 'the best revenge is living well'. So put your effort into that instead; you'll wind up happier for it.

[Gili]

Yup, I agree exactly what Wretch said.

If you start posting shit around, your just keeping involved. Just have nothing to do with her at all any more....people make their own decisions and need to live with them. Just take things a little slower with your next girl. Best of luck!

[bigSparky]

You're receiving sage advice here Bandit. Good luck.

[bandit]

You're receiving sage advice here Bandit. Good luck.

well she is going to do it, and try to get me to spend the last of my cash. so when she dumps me ill not only be homeless, but have no way to get shelter or food.

so the bitch is going to be part of a smear campaign.

here is it,

http://usersandabusers.webs.com/

[owly]

sorry bandit

[Immigrant]

bandit,
Like other's have pointed out already, you've received some pretty wise advice in this thread.

Fwiw, taking the low road will kill *you* a little inside (not them), and believe me, if someone is really a user/abuser, they'll just laugh their arse off at public displays while taking it as further affirmation (or excuse) for their self-loathing and blaming the world for their f-ups.

M8 some broads will gladly take what they can get and leave you a smoldering, burned-out cinder if they can get away with it. Can't blame them if they're allowed to get away with it... because no one forces us guys to fall for it (again and again in the case of some blokes). Any 'warnings' will not save a guy that's determined to be taken.

Btw, that site wasn't exactly work safe (why do I feel the insatiable need to click links?!)

Good vibes your direction all the same mate!